If you think someone who writes a bad review of your book is bullying you, then you should quickly develop a thick skin or stop writing immediately and do something else. Because if you keep writing, you are in for a world of hurt. You're not going to get much done if you're determined to respond to all the bad reviews, and you are going to be one very miserable person.
via www.huffingtonpost.com
I spend too much time on Amazon, browsing for my favorite genre -- Westerns. Occasionally I read the forums on Amazon; I've found some wonderful authors' backlists that way.
Yesterday I checked an Amazon forum; something weird was happening. Lots of fuss and bother about the readers' site, goodreads. (An excellent site, BTW.)
I looked at all the deleted posts on the forum threads, and couldn't work out what all the controversy was about.
The above HuffPo article cleared it up.
Writers can be very thin-skinned. Years ago I was part of an online critique group, where writers swapped critiques. I wrote what I thought was a well-reasoned, KIND critique for a self-published book. The "writer" took issue with me, at length, and quite viciously.
I was hurt. I'd spent two hours -- 120 minutes -- of my life that I'll never get back, and gave the writer what I considered was excellent advice.
As Ray Garton says in the above article, amateur writers aren't interested in improving their work, they just want to be told they're brilliant. And they are. It takes a lot of work to write a book. It takes sweat and tears and yet more work, to write a GOOD book.
If a writer can't take criticism, the chances he or she will ever write a good book are zero.
Here's a tip: you are NOT what you write. If someone writes a bad review of your book, be grateful. They took the time to do it. Maybe there's a grain of truth in even the worst review. Take what's useful to you from the review, and ignore the rest.
As a writer, you need readers. They have opinions. They're entitled to them, as are you. No one needs to read your writing. Always, always be grateful when someone reads your work. Be even more grateful for a review.
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