Being a writer means managing your fears of rejection. Do YOU fear rejection?
If you know you're scared of rejection, you can manage your fear. Unfortunately some writers repress their fear, and either give up writing, or stay in a comfortable writing rut for years.
Rejection is a fact of life for writers. All writers, even bestselling writers, have been rejected. Conquering your own fear of rejection is a huge step forward for any writer.
Here's a simple way to manage fears of rejection: take control, so that you barely notice any particular rejection.
How to cope with fears of rejection when selling your book: take control of the process
If you're sending book proposals to publishers and agents, create a deadline for each response, and put the deadline right on the proposal. For example: "If I don't hear from you by X date, I'll assume this book doesn't meet your current needs."
Then in your calendar program, note the deadline: "Indication-of-interest deadline for publisher X; send to publisher Y."
Or send out simultaneous proposals to ten publishers at a time. (Some publishers don't like this, but until they have you under contract their likes and dislikes are no concern of yours.)
How to cope with fears of rejection when selling articles: assume a lack of response for a week means "no"
You need to write custom queries for each magazine, because each magazine has its own style, so blasting out simultaneous queries doesn't work. Inevitably, this means that until you collect a stable of magazines for which you write, you end up writing many queries without a sale.
It's a lot of thankless work, which should inspire you to set time limits for your potential magazine clients.
Just as with publishers, use this formula: "If I don't hear from you by X date, I'll assume this article doesn't meet your current needs."
Give each publication a week - no longer - to get in touch with you. A week is long enough. Even without setting a deadline, interested editors will usually get in touch with you within hours of receiving your proposal. They know that professional writers are out to SELL, and will pass on to the next publication if they don't move quickly.
If a week goes by without a response, revise the query quickly and send it on to the next publication on your list.
Rejections are normal for writers. Fearing rejections is normal too. No one likes to be rejected. However, when you take control, you're too busy to notice rejection.
Take control of your writing process today.
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